Life is happening now.
I’m thinking of 2 types of negative experiences, one immediate, and the other long-term.
As an INFJ, the core of what you are is a subtle awareness taking place that looks deep beneath the surface to see connections revealing potential and possibility.
“Health” via “conforming” looks quite different for each type.
Declaring yourself terrible is too easy.
Writing yourself off like that is an excuse . . . a way of hiding behind ideals of perfection.
If someone asked you to brainstorm a list of the most important things in your life, I’m sure you could easily fill a page with scribbled terms circled and joined into various categories and sub-categories of value.
I want to be the best version of myself I can be.
A mistake I make at least twice a year is getting so wrapped up in things like outcomes and returns—the results of “being my best self”—that I end up trying to be someone else.
Before I came online and found this question, I was fully engulfed in feelings of resentment as I sat surrounded by my family in a room.
I often wonder how many times I’ll have to learn the same lessons before the knowledge reaches a deep enough level for me to actually change.
No one else has your exact perspective.